Letter to Sibling # 2

I remember you coming to my wedding and being so excited because I thought now we would have the bond I had always dreamed of.

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Though some would call you a half-sibling, you were my sibling and I always saw you as a whole. My heart was to big to see you as anything else.

And I remember seeing the joy on your face and me having the hope and excitement in knowing that this would be a changing point in our relationship. That you could love me as your sibling.

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And I remember the days turning into weeks and the weeks into months and you deciding to go on facebook and rant about how you hated our father.

The only father I had ever known and the father you never truly had a chance to get to know.

And it stung, it stung because in your rage you couldn’t see me and you couldn’t understand how I could be so hurt and confused that you would do that and place me in the middle.

And instead of confronting you about it, I grew silent like I always did when you all would argue with our father, and I let you have your moment.

I let your heart and your anger come out at the only man I had ever loved up to that point and to the first man that had ever hurt you.

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We both were on two different radars of emotions and in my love for you I had to let your rage roar on someone I loved.

I had to surrender.

And I remember our father being hurt in an accident and you calling me, crying, upset that you had to find out on facebook and that I didn’t have the decency to call you, his daughter too, to let you know what had happened.

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And with tears in my eyes and my heart in my throat I remember realizing that we would never have the relationship I desired.

Your mixed emotions towards him would never allow you to get to a place to separate me from him and allow us to have a relationship of our own.

Everything he did or didn’t do, I would pay the price all the same.

That’s when I realized I had to bury you, although you are still breathing just the same.

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